This review  is a stop on the Virtual Book Tour for The Gift of Giving Life.

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It’s called The Gift of Giving Life: Rediscovering the Divine Nature of Pregnancy and Birth. It’s a compilation of essays by Felice Austin, CHt; Lani Axman; Heather Farrell, CD(DONA); Robyn Allgood, AAHCC; and Sheridan Ripley, HCHI; all Latter-Day Saint women who have made pregnancy and birth an important part of their lives in one way or another. It’s also a collection of birth stories from other LDS women (and one man!) through the lens of their faith. At its most basic, it’s about how pregnancy and birth are essential to God’s plan for us, and how birth can and should be a sacred event.

But The Gift of Giving Life is so much more than that. It could have been a compilation of saccharine stories about perfect, pain-free home births and essays full of platitudes and worn out doctrines. Instead, it is a well-thought-out collection of historical records, relevant research, and examples–both scriptural and modern–of how giving birth is a sacred experience, even when the surrounding circumstances are not ideal.

There are stories of women who experienced fertility struggles, multiple miscarriages, abandonment, and abortion. One story was by a birth mother who gave her child up for adoption; another was from an adoptive mother’s perspective. The stories are written by women who gave births in hospitals and homes, with and without drugs, vaginally or by C-section, exactly as they had planned or under wildly unpredictable circumstances. Their experiences are vastly different from one another, yet the common thread throughout is the faith that sustained each new mother. Prayers were offered and answered. Priesthood blessings were asked for and received. The Holy Ghost provided direction, strength, comfort, and healing, and angels were in attendance as tiny new lives were brought into the world.

Much as I love a good birth story, though, the essays were the highlight of the book for me. They are grouped into topics that you might find in any other book about pregnancy and birth, like “Preparation,” “Fear,” and “The Fourth Trimester,” as well as subjects more likely to be found in a Sunday School manual, such as “Personal Revelation” and “The Atonement.” Where other books would give pregnancy-specific advice and share worst-case scenarios, these essays focus on how giving birth and living the gospel go hand in hand.

Heather Farrell delves into the history and legacy of midwifery in the church. Felice Austin discusses the importance of meditation, specifically during pregnancy but with suggestions that would be beneficial for anyone seeking clarity and communion with the Spirit.  Robyn Allgood talks of choice and accountability, explaining that the better informed a woman is, the more prepared she will be to both make good choices and respond well to the choices of others or the uncontrollable circumstances she might face. My favorite essay, ‘Two Veils” by Heather Farrell, draws some fascinating parallels between the two trees in the Garden of Eden, the “two veils” we all cross through birth and death, and the different but equally divine stewardships of women and men.

Something that struck me was how frequently the Savior is mentioned. As mentioned above, an entire chapter is devoted to the Atonement, but references to it are scattered throughout the book. The authors frequently make connections between bodily sacrifices a mother makes and the literal sacrifice of Jesus Christ. As I read, the parallels seemed so obvious that I couldn’t believe I’d never realized many of them before. For me it signified that all things truly do testify of Christ, and I appreciated the gentle reminder.

Because each section is short–usually only a few pages–it makes for an easy read. Honestly, there were a few sections I might have skipped over had I not been trying to be thorough, but that’s the beauty of a book like this. It is structured so that you don’t have to read it cover to cover, but can jump around as you find topics or stories that are more relevant to your situation or interests.

Despite its obvious focus, The Gift of Giving Life is about more than just the “divine nature of pregnancy and birth.” It’s about the divinity of womanhood in general. It reaffirmed my conviction that our Heavenly Father is mindful of all His children, and that we as His daughters have an especially powerful and divine destiny.

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Jen

Jen is a barefoot Sunday School teacher who lives on the surface of the sun (aka Phoenix, AZ) with her husband and three children. She's an extroverted introvert, an optimistic realist, and a career dabbler. Food is her love language. Read more from Jen at http://jenbosen.com/

5 Comments

  1. Peggy Taylor

    June 17, 2012

    I really enjoyed Jen’s review and look forward to reading The Gift, from my current perspective as a grandmother. Peggy

  2. Melissa Y

    June 17, 2012

    Thanks for the great review! I’m out of my childbearing years but would still love to read the book–I like the idea that it addresses many types of births rather than advocating a particular type of experience.

  3. tori

    June 17, 2012

    perfect review. fitting from what I can tell from making it through about 3/4 of the book!

    I think it’s an encouragement and such a blessing for all kinds of mothers.

    Great review!

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