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Comment on Finding My Balance by Barb

Barb — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 17:25:01 +0000

Well, I think that good mothers don’t all come from the same mold. While my mom always watched us and made sure we were safe and would read to us, I don’t remember her playing with us or doing crafts with us. I played with my siblings who are close in age as well as friends and neighbors. My mom did attend ceramics and other crafting classes from time to time. Over the Summer, we each got a turn at going with her and picking out a piece to complete. I love to entertain children but have a lot of anxiety about their safety(did not have the same level of anxiety when I was 19 to 23ish). If I could have one other adult to supervise and I could have my own separate area to engage and entertain, I would have all sorts of activities from crafts, literacy, drama, dance and more.

Comment on Choosing to Work During Life’s Second Half by Angela H.

Angela H. — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 13:43:49 +0000

Lynn, thank you for your additional clarification. And Magpie, I know a lot of women who have experienced what you’re going through. I have myself in my own way. It’s a tough transition time. Thanks to everyone for your contributions to this conversation!

Comment on Rhetorical Questions by jennifer rueben

jennifer rueben — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 04:44:20 +0000

when ten people are waiting or the meeting they conduct is starting in 5 min. there is a lot of pressure to just keep it

Comment on Rhetorical Questions by Sara

Sara — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:01:15 +0000

Jennifer Rueben–I think you should take that time. That’s what they are there for. They should listen to you and be open to discuss issues–otherwise, they aren’t doing their job right. If you are truly doing your best to keep your covenants, then they should be willing to discuss, to council (with you–not at you), and to act as a sounding board in your spiritual wanderings. If they wont listen to you flesh out your ideas, and yank a recommend hastily, there is always an option to go above heads, but I have found my priesthood leaders to always be open to discussing thoughts with mercy and openness. My husband does recommend interviews, and he is soooooooo concerned with doing it with the spirit and with mercy. I think that’s the norm, rather than the exception.

Comment on Rhetorical Questions by jennifer rueben

jennifer rueben — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 05:53:21 +0000

other questions cause me much more concern than this particular one, as I understand what the question is really trying to ask. however, the one about being completely honest in all your dealings has always been of concern. I want to ask for definitions and examples before I answer. I am concerned however, that the interviewer will not take my interruption of his routine kindly nor be able to understand my concern without getting the impression that I have something serious to confess. I would really like to have a good half hour of personal time with my priesthood leader to explore discuss and ask questions.

Comment on Choosing to Work During Life’s Second Half by jenna

jenna — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 04:27:36 +0000

So I am one od those Utah stereotypes who dropped out of school(with a year left !) and had babies when I was young. 3 by 24. My second half will begin in just a little while at 29! I have realized that, while I am grateful for the time I have had with my cute kids, I need to get out into the world again. I have been slowly doing night classes and will get my bachelors and than hopefully a masters so i will have greater opportunities for flexibility(see Lynn, look at how my education is still centered on my kids. I guess there might be lots of ways to prioritize family. )I made my choice based on my own needs , but also to show my kids some different options. My daughter is spunky and smart and I want to be a good role model for her.

Comment on Choosing to Work During Life’s Second Half by Sunday in Outer Blogness: Books Edition!! » Main Street Plaza

Sunday in Outer Blogness: Books Edition!! » Main Street Plaza — Sun, 16 Jun 2013 19:41:21 +0000

[...] More theology: Guy Templeton wonders what is the point of being sealed to one’s parents, and Andrew Hackman gave some examples of how religion sells you things you already had. Alliegator presented some evidence that references to the Mother God in the Bible that references to the Mother God in the Bible translated her name as “Sacred Tree” — very interesting in light of our earlier discussion of Yahweh’s hostility towards trees. Rediscovering Mother in Heaven is a key part of the movement to ordain women, as is simply taking charge of your own life. [...]

Comment on Rhetorical Questions by Lynn

Lynn — Sat, 15 Jun 2013 16:08:20 +0000

Just for clarification – I’m not comparing temple recommend interviews with visiting teaching interviews

Comment on Choosing to Work During Life’s Second Half by Elissa

Elissa — Sat, 15 Jun 2013 09:02:53 +0000

and sometimes they do several of these things – I started full-time work the same week I stared teaching early morning seminary – after an extremely strong answer to prayers that yes Heavenly Father did want me to do at the same time. With three school aged children, and a husband that is the the High Council it can be a struggle but an amazing struggle.

Comment on Rhetorical Questions by Lynn

Lynn — Sat, 15 Jun 2013 06:25:28 +0000

What’s the point of an interview if our answers are rote? We could be given a piece of paper and told to check the boxes. I’ve discussed my points of view in regards to this question and also discussed challenges I used to have with my relationship with my mother-in-law. The discussions always brought insightful counsel from the life of the Savior. And I was always given a recommend.
On a side note, I’ve always cringed at visiting teaching interviews that consist of the checkbox yes and no answers.
One of the most Christ-like friends I ever had only asked 2 questions when she interviewed visiting teachers when she was a relief society president:
1) will you please tell me about each sister you visit?
2) will you please tell me about you?