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		<title>By: Ana</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8372</link>
		<dc:creator>Ana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2007 17:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a fantasy about getting up in sacrament meeting and challenging my ward to choose something &quot;big&quot; to do to help the world. I think it is possible to do big things AND be a mom. It is just different for different people. And really when I think about it a lot of people ARE doing &quot;big&quot; things to make a difference.

Bek at Ignore the Crazy does volunteer work in Africa a couple of weeks a year and does ongoing projects with charities that work there.

My friend in my ward goes with her husband to do dental work in the Dominican Republic or Samoa or other places where dentists are scarce and people are poor.

My husband and I are fostering a baby right now through our county child services agency. That has selfish purposes too, for us, but I think it&#039;s something more people could do that would make a big difference.

If you look on the Church&#039;s humanitarian service site there are lists of things they need and projects you can do to help. Heck, crochet some leper bandages while you watch TV at night.

A lot of moms I know volunteer in their kids&#039; classrooms. That takes a lot of pressure off teachers who can then help kids more effectively. I think that is a big thing.

Something I want to do (maybe when I get released from Young Women) is take Spanish classes. Then I would be able to help people in need in my own town so much better.

Something I am not at all good at doing is sharing the gospel. But that is a big thing that one person can do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a fantasy about getting up in sacrament meeting and challenging my ward to choose something &#8220;big&#8221; to do to help the world. I think it is possible to do big things AND be a mom. It is just different for different people. And really when I think about it a lot of people ARE doing &#8220;big&#8221; things to make a difference.</p>
<p>Bek at Ignore the Crazy does volunteer work in Africa a couple of weeks a year and does ongoing projects with charities that work there.</p>
<p>My friend in my ward goes with her husband to do dental work in the Dominican Republic or Samoa or other places where dentists are scarce and people are poor.</p>
<p>My husband and I are fostering a baby right now through our county child services agency. That has selfish purposes too, for us, but I think it&#8217;s something more people could do that would make a big difference.</p>
<p>If you look on the Church&#8217;s humanitarian service site there are lists of things they need and projects you can do to help. Heck, crochet some leper bandages while you watch TV at night.</p>
<p>A lot of moms I know volunteer in their kids&#8217; classrooms. That takes a lot of pressure off teachers who can then help kids more effectively. I think that is a big thing.</p>
<p>Something I want to do (maybe when I get released from Young Women) is take Spanish classes. Then I would be able to help people in need in my own town so much better.</p>
<p>Something I am not at all good at doing is sharing the gospel. But that is a big thing that one person can do.</p>
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		<title>By: LAGirrrl</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8295</link>
		<dc:creator>LAGirrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 01:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have the best of both worlds currently; I work with homeless youth and make sure I&#039;m a clear and positive presence in the lives of my niece and nephews.  Maybe the balance for Moms who are in the throes of childhood get balanced by the single, or childless women here on this earth.  Plus, I know it&#039;s so cliche but it will be over before you  know it and you will have time to serve.  I wish more women could accept the seasons of their lives, it would create a lot more bliss and a lot less undo strife.  If I were impacting my own children instead of working with other people&#039;s children, there would not be much difference, would there?  When I&#039;m not at work or school or running across CA to pick up a nephew or niece for a sleepover, I&#039;m indulging in mani/pedis, walks on the beach and movies, etc.  I have that luxury and it helps balance how much I&#039;m required to give emotionally and physically at my job.  About the busyness of life, I have an issue reading some women&#039;s blogs where it is all about buying new furniture, having houses built, or losing that last 5 lbs. (you get the idea)  I know blogs are for that kind of stuff, but I see many spoiled women who don&#039;t even acknowledge how truly spoiled they are...and I won&#039;t call those types of endeavors &quot;blessed&quot;, sorry, you might as well own it if you are spoiled!  And yeah, that is a judgment on my part, I own that too! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have the best of both worlds currently; I work with homeless youth and make sure I&#8217;m a clear and positive presence in the lives of my niece and nephews.  Maybe the balance for Moms who are in the throes of childhood get balanced by the single, or childless women here on this earth.  Plus, I know it&#8217;s so cliche but it will be over before you  know it and you will have time to serve.  I wish more women could accept the seasons of their lives, it would create a lot more bliss and a lot less undo strife.  If I were impacting my own children instead of working with other people&#8217;s children, there would not be much difference, would there?  When I&#8217;m not at work or school or running across CA to pick up a nephew or niece for a sleepover, I&#8217;m indulging in mani/pedis, walks on the beach and movies, etc.  I have that luxury and it helps balance how much I&#8217;m required to give emotionally and physically at my job.  About the busyness of life, I have an issue reading some women&#8217;s blogs where it is all about buying new furniture, having houses built, or losing that last 5 lbs. (you get the idea)  I know blogs are for that kind of stuff, but I see many spoiled women who don&#8217;t even acknowledge how truly spoiled they are&#8230;and I won&#8217;t call those types of endeavors &#8220;blessed&#8221;, sorry, you might as well own it if you are spoiled!  And yeah, that is a judgment on my part, I own that too! <img src='http://segullah.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Dalene</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8254</link>
		<dc:creator>Dalene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 07:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is so much need. It can be overwhelming. But I do believe what Brooke says is true about doing what you can in whatever circle you find yourself in. Also, I think sometimes we forget the good that we do every time we pay our tithes and offerings or even take a bunch of old stuff to DI. Have you ever toured the church&#039;s humanitarian building up in SLC? I had no idea that my kids old shoes, shorts and shirts were helping to clothe kids in Africa, but it&#039;s true. Most of what we drop off there does not stay in this country.

I&#039;m not trying to urge complacency--I have great respect for those who reach out and I have a desire to do more, but I hope in doing so I don&#039;t forget that no matter what I do globally, there are many things I can do--as simple as sending a warm smile someone&#039;s way or offering a hug at the right moment--that will make the greatest difference among my family, neighbors, friends, co-workers and people I meet on the street.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is so much need. It can be overwhelming. But I do believe what Brooke says is true about doing what you can in whatever circle you find yourself in. Also, I think sometimes we forget the good that we do every time we pay our tithes and offerings or even take a bunch of old stuff to DI. Have you ever toured the church&#8217;s humanitarian building up in SLC? I had no idea that my kids old shoes, shorts and shirts were helping to clothe kids in Africa, but it&#8217;s true. Most of what we drop off there does not stay in this country.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not trying to urge complacency&#8211;I have great respect for those who reach out and I have a desire to do more, but I hope in doing so I don&#8217;t forget that no matter what I do globally, there are many things I can do&#8211;as simple as sending a warm smile someone&#8217;s way or offering a hug at the right moment&#8211;that will make the greatest difference among my family, neighbors, friends, co-workers and people I meet on the street.</p>
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		<title>By: brooke</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8236</link>
		<dc:creator>brooke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 19:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my limited travel to latin American and Carribbean countries that seem impoverished, I&#039;m always struck by the locals&#039; happiness. I remember meeting some teenagers in Costa Rica and they loved life. They had absolutely nothing, but they loved to play &quot;football&quot; everyday and they loved to laugh and even though their house was a hut and made of corrugated tin, they light and sparkle in their eyes made me question the way I lived MY life back in the States-- way too excessively, i decided. 

I love what angie says about &quot;spiritual poverty&quot;-- so true. Maybe we feel guilty sometimes for the relative ease of our lifestyles and so we want to give back and DO SOMETHING! It&#039;s difficult to feel helpless. I know it seems cliche, but I believe the whole &quot;think globally act locally&quot; slogan: we do what we can for those we are able to help and to them, it does make a difference, for them and for us. 

Maybe it&#039;s because I&#039;m just getting my visiting teaching done today (horrible, I know!), but this post reminds me of the April theme of caring for the poor and needy.

Definitely a helpful post for me-- thanks, Justine!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my limited travel to latin American and Carribbean countries that seem impoverished, I&#8217;m always struck by the locals&#8217; happiness. I remember meeting some teenagers in Costa Rica and they loved life. They had absolutely nothing, but they loved to play &#8220;football&#8221; everyday and they loved to laugh and even though their house was a hut and made of corrugated tin, they light and sparkle in their eyes made me question the way I lived MY life back in the States&#8211; way too excessively, i decided. </p>
<p>I love what angie says about &#8220;spiritual poverty&#8221;&#8211; so true. Maybe we feel guilty sometimes for the relative ease of our lifestyles and so we want to give back and DO SOMETHING! It&#8217;s difficult to feel helpless. I know it seems cliche, but I believe the whole &#8220;think globally act locally&#8221; slogan: we do what we can for those we are able to help and to them, it does make a difference, for them and for us. </p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m just getting my visiting teaching done today (horrible, I know!), but this post reminds me of the April theme of caring for the poor and needy.</p>
<p>Definitely a helpful post for me&#8211; thanks, Justine!</p>
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		<title>By: Sharlee</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8231</link>
		<dc:creator>Sharlee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 17:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband is doing wonderful things to help develop social consciousness and expand the awareness of not only our own children but all the young people in our ward.  For last month&#039;s combined activity, he had all the YM and YW bring from $5.00 to $10.00 (from money they had earned themselves) and together they found a Kiva project to support.  Also, in June he will be taking a group of young people (including our three oldest sons) to Mexico to build homes for people who have nothing.  This will be the second year for my oldest son.  His first experience in Mexico changed his life.  

I think it&#039;s vitally important that we make our children aware of the broader world and of the sometimes excruciating conditions that people live under.  And then we need to encourage them to take action--to do whatever they can, using their own unique gifts, to make life a little better for their fellow sojourners on this ole&#039; planet.  Our daughter, who loves music and theater, founded the DreamMaker Theater Workshop--a theatrical troupe for kids with disabilities--when she was in high school.  Thanks, largely, to the efforts and example of their dad, each of our boys have participated (willingly even!) in numerous service projects and humanitarian efforts.  For his Eagle Project, our 13-year-old son collected materials for and put together 150 school kits to deliver to the children in that area of Mexico where they&#039;ll be building homes this summer.  And our 9-year-old is currently working on a project that he calls &quot;No More Wars.&quot;  His goal is to collect stuffed animals and candy to send to the children of Iraq to foster goodwill.  &quot;That way we&#039;ll all be friends, so when we grow up there will be no more wars,&quot; he says.  Gotta love it.  (This whole thing, by the way, was completely his own idea.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband is doing wonderful things to help develop social consciousness and expand the awareness of not only our own children but all the young people in our ward.  For last month&#8217;s combined activity, he had all the YM and YW bring from $5.00 to $10.00 (from money they had earned themselves) and together they found a Kiva project to support.  Also, in June he will be taking a group of young people (including our three oldest sons) to Mexico to build homes for people who have nothing.  This will be the second year for my oldest son.  His first experience in Mexico changed his life.  </p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s vitally important that we make our children aware of the broader world and of the sometimes excruciating conditions that people live under.  And then we need to encourage them to take action&#8211;to do whatever they can, using their own unique gifts, to make life a little better for their fellow sojourners on this ole&#8217; planet.  Our daughter, who loves music and theater, founded the DreamMaker Theater Workshop&#8211;a theatrical troupe for kids with disabilities&#8211;when she was in high school.  Thanks, largely, to the efforts and example of their dad, each of our boys have participated (willingly even!) in numerous service projects and humanitarian efforts.  For his Eagle Project, our 13-year-old son collected materials for and put together 150 school kits to deliver to the children in that area of Mexico where they&#8217;ll be building homes this summer.  And our 9-year-old is currently working on a project that he calls &#8220;No More Wars.&#8221;  His goal is to collect stuffed animals and candy to send to the children of Iraq to foster goodwill.  &#8220;That way we&#8217;ll all be friends, so when we grow up there will be no more wars,&#8221; he says.  Gotta love it.  (This whole thing, by the way, was completely his own idea.)</p>
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		<title>By: Space Chick</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8229</link>
		<dc:creator>Space Chick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 16:57:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, you talked me into it--Kiva just got more $.  And you can sort by gender if you want to donate to female entreprenuers.  Love it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, you talked me into it&#8211;Kiva just got more $.  And you can sort by gender if you want to donate to female entreprenuers.  Love it!</p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8228</link>
		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 16:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kate, you always know just what to say, and you are so right. I can raise children that don&#039;t contribute to a culture of corruption and violence.

And I got involved with Kiva last year. It&#039;s a great idea, for sure, but it does feel slightly sanitized and removed from the whole process of sacrifice and giving. I feel removed from the process, even though I know I&#039;m vital to that process. Strange, I know.

Emily, I thought a great deal about that talk after she gave it. And she is just so fundamentally right. We all are equal in opportunity where spirituality is concerned.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kate, you always know just what to say, and you are so right. I can raise children that don&#8217;t contribute to a culture of corruption and violence.</p>
<p>And I got involved with Kiva last year. It&#8217;s a great idea, for sure, but it does feel slightly sanitized and removed from the whole process of sacrifice and giving. I feel removed from the process, even though I know I&#8217;m vital to that process. Strange, I know.</p>
<p>Emily, I thought a great deal about that talk after she gave it. And she is just so fundamentally right. We all are equal in opportunity where spirituality is concerned.</p>
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		<title>By: Angie</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8183</link>
		<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 02:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think about this alot. It really seems immoral to me to live a middle class lifestyle when other people are suffering. Would Jesus have been thinking about a new game system when other people don&#039;t have food to eat? 

I worry not only about teaching my children, but about what I have learned and what I am doing in a practical sense. And whatever it is, it doesn&#039;t feel like enough. 

My husband, who grew up in poverty in a family of migrant immigrants, has a slightly different perspective. He says Americans think Mexicans are poor in terms of material items, but Mexicans see the spiritual poverty of Americans. He doesn&#039;t see physical suffering as being as big a deal as I do. But either way, I feel like I am being tested. What am I doing with my (relative) material wealth? Am I using it to cultivate spiritual wealth?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think about this alot. It really seems immoral to me to live a middle class lifestyle when other people are suffering. Would Jesus have been thinking about a new game system when other people don&#8217;t have food to eat? </p>
<p>I worry not only about teaching my children, but about what I have learned and what I am doing in a practical sense. And whatever it is, it doesn&#8217;t feel like enough. </p>
<p>My husband, who grew up in poverty in a family of migrant immigrants, has a slightly different perspective. He says Americans think Mexicans are poor in terms of material items, but Mexicans see the spiritual poverty of Americans. He doesn&#8217;t see physical suffering as being as big a deal as I do. But either way, I feel like I am being tested. What am I doing with my (relative) material wealth? Am I using it to cultivate spiritual wealth?</p>
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		<title>By: Tatiana</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8182</link>
		<dc:creator>Tatiana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 01:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I want to put in a plug here for kiva, the way to lend money online to struggling entrepreneurs in the third world.  It&#039;s not a gift but a loan, to help them grow their businesses and increase their income.  It helps people pull themselves out of poverty.  It&#039;s very much like the PEF, only it applies to everyone.  I&#039;m very excited about it, and regularly loan a sum every paycheck, and reinvest the loans paid back in further loans.  It&#039;s really cool watching it grow and snowball! Check it out.  http://www.kiva.org/app.php</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to put in a plug here for kiva, the way to lend money online to struggling entrepreneurs in the third world.  It&#8217;s not a gift but a loan, to help them grow their businesses and increase their income.  It helps people pull themselves out of poverty.  It&#8217;s very much like the PEF, only it applies to everyone.  I&#8217;m very excited about it, and regularly loan a sum every paycheck, and reinvest the loans paid back in further loans.  It&#8217;s really cool watching it grow and snowball! Check it out.  <a href="http://www.kiva.org/app.php" rel="nofollow">http://www.kiva.org/app.php</a></p>
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		<title>By: Kate Windsor</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/how/#comment-8180</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate Windsor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 00:21:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Justine you&#039;re right,&quot; The Lord isnâ€™t having the greater global community suffer with disease and malnutrition just for fun&quot;. That is what His children do If we can raise children that don&#039;t cause harm than we are doing a great job. Think of the people in Virginia. Do you think that something like that could have been avoided by some loving parenting? Maybe or maybe not, but I think that a good mother can do a great deal to quench the violence in our world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Justine you&#8217;re right,&#8221; The Lord isnâ€™t having the greater global community suffer with disease and malnutrition just for fun&#8221;. That is what His children do If we can raise children that don&#8217;t cause harm than we are doing a great job. Think of the people in Virginia. Do you think that something like that could have been avoided by some loving parenting? Maybe or maybe not, but I think that a good mother can do a great deal to quench the violence in our world.</p>
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