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	<description>Mormon women blogging about the peculiar and the treasured</description>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/the-best-work-on-butcher-paper-ever/#comment-154308</link>
		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 20:25:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your story! So funny.

At the same time, I thank my lucky stars that no kindergarten teacher ever gave me such an assignment. I&#039;m convinced that I have what almost amounts to an art deficit (at least it could reasonably be construed as such), and my work would certainly have been THE WORST ever submitted by any mom.

I could have written a nice little poem about him, though!  

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your story! So funny.</p>
<p>At the same time, I thank my lucky stars that no kindergarten teacher ever gave me such an assignment. I&#8217;m convinced that I have what almost amounts to an art deficit (at least it could reasonably be construed as such), and my work would certainly have been THE WORST ever submitted by any mom.</p>
<p>I could have written a nice little poem about him, though!  </p>
<p>=)</p>
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		<title>By: pamela</title>
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		<dc:creator>pamela</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can I have you for a mommy? Thanks for the honesty.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can I have you for a mommy? Thanks for the honesty.</p>
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		<title>By: Selwyn</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/the-best-work-on-butcher-paper-ever/#comment-154113</link>
		<dc:creator>Selwyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 06:43:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I second the call for a photo!

Separating my own ability and learning from my boys&#039; is something I still have to work on (though usually I&#039;m more in Jennie&#039;s &quot;book and suggestions&quot; camp!)

I&#039;m sure everyone has a story of when they went a little hard in &quot;enthusiasm&quot;, and lived to question themselves about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I second the call for a photo!</p>
<p>Separating my own ability and learning from my boys&#8217; is something I still have to work on (though usually I&#8217;m more in Jennie&#8217;s &#8220;book and suggestions&#8221; camp!)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure everyone has a story of when they went a little hard in &#8220;enthusiasm&#8221;, and lived to question themselves about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Sage</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/the-best-work-on-butcher-paper-ever/#comment-154087</link>
		<dc:creator>Sage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just love it when these posts mirror my life! Well, I didn&#039;t have anyone going into kindergarten so it wasn&#039;t that close. But I did just read Leadership and Self-deception by the Arbinger Institute (same group that did Bonds that Make us Free) so I&#039;ve been thinking about how I relate to others and especially how I mother. It&#039;s hard not to always make everything about me! 

Thanks for the lovely post (hope we get to see a photo of your masterpiece!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just love it when these posts mirror my life! Well, I didn&#8217;t have anyone going into kindergarten so it wasn&#8217;t that close. But I did just read Leadership and Self-deception by the Arbinger Institute (same group that did Bonds that Make us Free) so I&#8217;ve been thinking about how I relate to others and especially how I mother. It&#8217;s hard not to always make everything about me! </p>
<p>Thanks for the lovely post (hope we get to see a photo of your masterpiece!)</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:11:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now I want to go up to the school and see Carina&#039;s picture as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now I want to go up to the school and see Carina&#8217;s picture as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 03:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok, so I saw said picture this afternoon at the school, and DANG WOMAN! You&#039;ve put every mother throughout Kindergarten history to shame! The subtlety you were able to manage with that huge mangled Kindergarten paintbrush is really remarkable.

Seriously, there aren&#039;t words...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok, so I saw said picture this afternoon at the school, and DANG WOMAN! You&#8217;ve put every mother throughout Kindergarten history to shame! The subtlety you were able to manage with that huge mangled Kindergarten paintbrush is really remarkable.</p>
<p>Seriously, there aren&#8217;t words&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jennie</title>
		<link>http://segullah.org/daily-special/the-best-work-on-butcher-paper-ever/#comment-154062</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 02:31:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to be like that, but I have a very finite amount of energy and I simply can&#039;t waste it on crafts for elementary school.  Especially since nobody ever heralds &quot;our&quot; projects as being as brilliant as I think they are.  Basically, nobody cares about my masterpieces.  And then I&#039;m afraid the teacher will think I&#039;m one of those nutjob helicopter parents.

So now I let my kids do everything. And I just sit back and watch (&quot;watch&quot; might be too strong a word.  More like, &quot;sit in my chair reading a book and shouting suggestions when I think about it.&quot; ) And it is a beautiful thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to be like that, but I have a very finite amount of energy and I simply can&#8217;t waste it on crafts for elementary school.  Especially since nobody ever heralds &#8220;our&#8221; projects as being as brilliant as I think they are.  Basically, nobody cares about my masterpieces.  And then I&#8217;m afraid the teacher will think I&#8217;m one of those nutjob helicopter parents.</p>
<p>So now I let my kids do everything. And I just sit back and watch (&#8220;watch&#8221; might be too strong a word.  More like, &#8220;sit in my chair reading a book and shouting suggestions when I think about it.&#8221; ) And it is a beautiful thing.</p>
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		<title>By: mormonhermitmom</title>
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		<dc:creator>mormonhermitmom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So that&#039;s why it was so hard to just let my husband and son do his pinewood derby car!

I&#039;m laughing beside you.

On the other hand, I can get lazy. I might have given the toddler the paint and said, &quot;Here draw your sibling&quot;. That would have been interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So that&#8217;s why it was so hard to just let my husband and son do his pinewood derby car!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m laughing beside you.</p>
<p>On the other hand, I can get lazy. I might have given the toddler the paint and said, &#8220;Here draw your sibling&#8221;. That would have been interesting.</p>
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		<title>By: jendoop</title>
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		<dc:creator>jendoop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 22:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This applies to more than just mothers and children. Has anyone ever spent more than 2 hours preparing a church lesson? Ever told someone exactly how they can fix their life, when they didn&#039;t ask for your advice? 

Speaking from personal experience, we usually justify these types of things with the excuse of loving and serving. You put it this way, &quot;I’d turned it into competition to prove that I was the best, not to paint a picture of my child.&quot; How great that you recognized it and so, will be vigilant about it in the future. This is really the hard part of any type of service (parenting, teaching, friendshipping, marriage) - selflessness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This applies to more than just mothers and children. Has anyone ever spent more than 2 hours preparing a church lesson? Ever told someone exactly how they can fix their life, when they didn&#8217;t ask for your advice? </p>
<p>Speaking from personal experience, we usually justify these types of things with the excuse of loving and serving. You put it this way, &#8220;I’d turned it into competition to prove that I was the best, not to paint a picture of my child.&#8221; How great that you recognized it and so, will be vigilant about it in the future. This is really the hard part of any type of service (parenting, teaching, friendshipping, marriage) &#8211; selflessness.</p>
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		<title>By: Faith.Not.Fear</title>
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		<dc:creator>Faith.Not.Fear</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 22:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t forget the eternal pinewood derby complex! Usually affects males, though :-).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t forget the eternal pinewood derby complex! Usually affects males, though <img src='http://segullah.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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