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The Jena 6

By Heather Oman

As a white, upper middle class girl growing up in the West, words like “segregation” and “hate crime” were not a part of my vocabulary.  My grandmother used to talk about living in DC, and how when she went to the movies, she sat down in front, while non-whites sat in the balcony, and talked about the “whites only” drinking fountains.  I remember staring at her as she told me these stories as a child, thinking that surely she was completely crazy, because nothing that bizarre could ever exist. You could argue that I’ve lived a sheltered life, and you’d be correct.  Still, I would say that nobody who grew up in my childhood neighborhood ever had to face something like this, the uproar that is surrounding the Jena 6.

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Uppity Mormon Woman Forgets Her Place

By Heidi Wessman Kneale

I HAVE A REALLY NICE CORSET, which I wore in a Relief Society historical play. Several of the women, including my Relief Society president, had never seen me in a corset before. When one of them (an older woman who remembered corsetry as an oppressive article of underclothing) asked me why I owned a corset, …

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One Great Whole

By Kathyrn Lynard

I LICK THE ENVELOPE and press it shut, affix the stamp, and place it in the mailbox with a sigh of satisfaction. This is my fourth letter to Amy. I’ve been writing to her every week since she checked herself in to a substance-abuse rehabilitation program. Amy, my neighbor’s live-in niece, first came to church …

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Teaching Children to Respect their Bodies

By Kylie Turley

Raising children to respect their bodies can be difficult, especially with the distorted body images we are often presented with today. How can we teach our children to understand their bodies in a healthy way, in a spiritual way, in a godlike way? —Kylie Turley, Focus Editor This year, more than ever in my seventy …

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Condemn Me Not Because of Mine Imperfections

By Emily Milner

Editor’s Note: This is another (very welcome) guest post from Emily M.

The Book of Mormon mentions five women by name: Sariah, Abish, Isabel, Eve, and Mary. It refers, without naming, to various wives (of Nephi and his brothers, of King Lamoni, of Jacob’s philandering people); to an abused servant girl of a dissenting army leader; and to a conspiring, dancing daughter in Ether. We also have the wives who inspire the men to fight, and the mothers of Helaman’s army.

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I Believe In Yesterday

By Courtney Kendrick

I walked out of James Bond last night after the first scene. The violence made my heart double dribble and I started getting hot flashes.

I came home to watch Isabel Allende shove peanuts down her dress on Craig Ferguson.

I had a tuna sandwich on hazelnut bread. It needed more mustard.

I watched the sporadic snow out my front window.

I went to the lot and picked out a flocked Christmas tree, skinny and tall. Three things that I never thought I’d like in a tree. Ironically, three things I’d never like in a man. Time changes everything. I guess.

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When all you’ve got is…

By Maralise Petersen

Time seems to “hang out” here in rural Virginia. It’s not that people have it, take it, or always use it wisely. But, it’s there, just waiting. I heard a story today about a lady who decided to clean the gravestones in her local cemetery. She spends 5-6 hours a day and will be working for another 3 years in order to finish. You see, she had a friend that died a couple of years ago and she is grieving in that special way that women do–whilst working to clean up the world.

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