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Agency and Stewardships Challenged by Dementia

By Karen Austin

My children have six living grandparents whose ages range from 79 to 87. I am glad that we have our parents and my stepparents as part of our extended family; however, it’s difficult to watch them face age-related challenges: limited income, problems with communication such as vision and hearing, multiple chronic disease such as arthritis …

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despite a wide difference of opinion

By Michelle Lehnardt

and get them from here! One of the blessings of the pandemic is my front row seat to my sons’ YSA ward at my kitchen counter. Each week, my admiration for the young adults in our church increases as I listen to their thoughtful comments and insights on Zoom Sunday School and Elder’s Quorum lessons. …

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Words Fall In: An Interview with Lauri Schoenfeld

By Melonie Cannon

Not only is Lauri Schoenfeld a diverse writer, she is an advocate and healer for hurt souls. A survivor of abuse and child scoliosis, Lauri has overcome those challenges and through deep introspection guides others along the same healing path. She is the greater of Inner Enlightenment, a business built around connecting to your inner …

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Resolution Evolution

By Karen Austin

I gave up making resolutions years ago. I abandoned the practice for several reasons. Naturally, I end up breaking my resolutions fairly quickly, which led to shame, discouragement, and a frenzied feeding of my vices. Like Paul, I am grossly disappointed in my ability to keep my resolutions. He describes his wrestle between virtue and …

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Breaking the Silence: Surviving Incest

I am a sexual abuse and incest survivor. My abuser was my best friend. She was my sister. A few years ago when the #metoo movement began, I thought, So many women I know have suffered sexual abuse: sister-in-laws, neighbors, friends. My brain kept insisting, Not me. But then it all came back. The dam …

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Witness to Sexual Harassment

By Karen Austin

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While I was in graduate school, I encountered several tense situations where students experienced sexual comments or sexual touch from another student or from a faculty member. Most of the time, I was not a direct witness, so these situations aren’t ones where I can serve as a witness.

I did, however, witness many students reporting an inappropriate comment. When I was studying at the University of Wisconsin at Milwaukee, several graduate students reported the same comment from a faculty member. At the start of an academic conference, one of the tenured faculty members who organized the event stood at the podium.

She launched the conference by telling a “joke” that her sexual preference was graduate students.

There was audible laughter from several of the visiting scholars.  The faculty member said this with over a dozen graduate students present in the plenary session.

Not good.

This resulted in several conversations in the graduate carrels about how students felt threatened by her, given that she had a lot of power over her students as a teacher, dissertation advisor, and potential reference for obtaining a job in the field.

I was, however, a direct witness to other awkward, tense, or threatening situations.

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Book Review: Educated

By Jessie Christensen

Tara Westover’s memoir Educated tells the gripping story of her impoverished childhood in southeastern Idaho, raised by fundamentalist parents who kept her from school and medical care because of their fears about government intrusion in their lives. The youngest of seven children, Tara spends her childhood working for her father in his salvage and construction business and helping her mother create herbal remedies. She suffers from the social isolation brought on by her parents’ extreme views, an abusive older brother, and the physical difficulties of a life spent doing dangerous work without proper safety procedures or medical attention. However, Tara gets accepted to BYU at seventeen, and after leaving home learns how to live, and thrive, on her own at college—and eventually rises all the way to earning a PhD from Cambridge.

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Potiphar’s Wife and Teaching Kids Consent

By Kimberly Sears

“Who’s dat?” My two-year-old points to the painting of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife by Del Parson. We’re trying desperately to stick to our no-activities-or-snacks-until-after-the-sacrament rule, but the Gospel Art Book from the Distribution Center is fair game. “What they’re doing?” “That’s Potiphar’s wife,” I whisper back, “and that’s Joseph. She’s trying to touch his body …

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Let The Chips Fall

By Shari Crall

I glommed easily onto the #metoo hashtag. In the rush of seeing powerful men tumble, I felt gleeful empowerment. Sexual abuse – by a teenaged boy when I was 5; at a ward camp out, by a ward member I babysat for at 12; and by a friend’s father at a sleepover when I was …

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The One Thing You Can Do To Make Your Child Happy and Successful

By Hildie Westenhaver

I can already see your raised eyebrow and hear you muttering, “There isn’t one magic thing that we can do to make our children happy.” But there is! And, surprisingly, it doesn’t involve sports, music lessons or going to church. It’s eating dinner together as a family at least four nights a week. Roll your eyes …

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