I won’t say the question, but I will say that it was answered by Elder Uchtdorf saying that courageous decisions require hope. Make them.
Edited to Add: Elder Bednar’s discussion about creating my spiritually before I create it temporally was a pretty powerful answer to the question: “How do I survive my days with all these small children without feeling the urge to lock myself in the bedroom?” Powerful answer for sure.
And you? Any answers to the challenge?